Thoughts on Expat Living
I have now been living overseas in SE Asia for 7 years. We made our first big move December 30, 2013 to Bangkok with two 50lb suitcases for each of us (four total). We carried clothes, shoes, toiletries and medical type supplies, special knickknacks for our new home (specially chosen ones), important papers for visa paperwork, laptops, and other miscellaneous but important items. Over these 7 years, we have lived basically the same way. We have what we need and enjoy, and, at the same time, my supply is carefully chosen and kept at a minimal amount. The days of storing the Christmas tins, having loads of blankets, pillows, and other bedding are behind me.
But I must say my thoughts on this minimalist lifestyle have recently been challenged. I have met some new expats in my city who live their life very differently. They have other options available to them, like the use of containers to ship their furniture and household goods wherever they live overseas. They have larger homes with kitchens in the Western style that is as fully equipped as we are used to in the States (including a dishwasher!!).
One side of me thinks back to life as I use to live it in my US home. Then I think of life here. It has taken adjustments, but the simpler way of life has come to suit me. I like being more thoughtful about the things I keep and store. I like having less things and a smaller area to keep clean. I do know that I want my space to be a comfortable space. I do want my space to be filled with things that remind me of special people and fill me with special thoughts from my life. I do want my space to be welcoming to others. And I must say that I like pretty things!
I would also say that, by having met these new expat friends with more stuff, I have realized I could allow myself a few more things. (Hahaha!) What does that look like? Finding Glade solid air fresheners that give my closets, bathrooms, etc. a nice smell. I found the apple cinnamon scent here, and I have been buying and storing them (you truly may not find this again!). I bought myself a couple more pillows/cushions to enjoy and use for floor sitting. I bought a couple more blankets/throws to have for guests and to just enjoy ourselves. And I have another item on my wish list to help with my kitchen space management. So it has been good to expand some and feel the happiness of making my home more beautiful and comfortable.
For many years, even before my expat living, I found it good to de-clutter my home and my life at times. As we are approaching the end of this year, this can be a good time to re-evaluate our stuff. This stuff may be actual things we own. Or this stuff maybe attitudes, disappointments, expectations…you get the idea…that you continue to carry around with you. Here are some questions that could help us truthfully think about our stuff.
I call this “de-cluttering” of life and stuff -- Living Free.
Just saying or thinking the word PEACE can produce a calming type of feeling. Or maybe a longing for it and a sorrow that it can seem so far away?
There is no price tag that we can put on this PEACE.
There is no box that we can fit this PEACE in.
There is no legislation we can lobby for or pass that can give us this PEACE…an inner PEACE of the heart.
And yet, when all chaos is breaking loose around us, this PEACE can be an anchor. This PEACE can become something very tangible and real in our lives. How can something unseen be such a powerful force in our lives?
I think of this quote, “Peace I leave with you. Not as the world gives, but My PEACE.” That’s a PEACE worth searching for. That’s a PEACE worth finding.
If you do not know this PEACE, contact me (send a contact message from this website). I will be happy to share with you about this PEACE that anchors and calms in the fiercest of storms in life.
Enjoy this link to some beautiful and peaceful music and images:
You have more to give than you realize. You may think your talent, your ability, your education, your experience, and so on and so on is just a little bit…not enough. But you have misjudged YOU. You have misjudged the ONE who made YOU. You are wonderfully and intricately created…right down to the most minute detail. Shine!
When you consider your fingerprints, consider how there is not another set like yours in all the world. When you consider your DNA, consider that it is uniquely your DNA. Celebrate that you have been created unique. Celebrate that you have a niche in this world that only you can fill. The more we understand and appreciate and embrace the value of our uniqueness, the more we can embrace and celebrate the uniqueness of others. Comparison is an evil device meant to tear us down. Comparison is a strategy of hell to destroy the beauty and purpose we are created to have. Shine!
Choose to ARISE out of the dust of self-hate. Choose to arise out of the quicksand of self-doubt. Choose to arise out of the waters of “only ifs”. Choose to see the good that is in you. Choose to see the blessing of your creation. Choose to see that you are a gift and not a burden. You are a delight and not a sorrow or disappointment. You bring a smile to the face of the Creator of this universe…the Creator of YOU. Shine!
Cindy writes about her adventures, observations, and other nuggets from living in another nation. She and John live in SE Asia. She will also share nuggets from her 58 plus years of life.